How Do I Show My Girlfriend I Love her?

Actions speak louder than words. It is true that there is more honesty in your actions than in what you can say.
You love your girlfriend and you want to show her how much she means to you. Words seem insufficient for this purpose. You could say “I love you” in hundred different ways but words somehow lack the depth you want to convey.
How do you show you girlfriend that your love for her has a depth to it? The first step of course is to be sincere in your love. Your actions would be congruent with your feelings always. If you feel the love inside you, it is a given that you will show the love externally in your actions.
Don’t fake it because it becomes very obvious, especially to girls. Never force yourself to do anything, action should just flow out of your actual feelings not the other way round.

Ways to Show Your Girlfriend You Love Her

Here are a few things guys who truly love their girlfriend tend to do naturally, which usually ends up showing her how much he loves her. Remember that when you really love her your actions would be along these lines. You cannot fake these actions neither do you need to do something just to impress her.

Don’t flirt with other girls when you have a girlfriend

When you really love a girl it is rare that you would feel like flirting with other girls. Of course you can still ogle at a particularly attractive girl, that’s natural to men. Flirting or initiating contact with other girls would certainly devalue her importance in your life.
If you feel like going out with other girls or spending time with them, it might show that you are not really sincere in your love towards your girlfriend. Guys who stay loyal usually end up with girls who stay loyal to them and the contrary is also true.

Learn to trust her love for you

Most guys get insecure and start wondering if their girlfriend is really in love with them or if she is attracted to other guys.
If you can’t trust your girlfriend it could mean two things:

• You are insecure within yourself and tend to project things negatively.
• Your girlfriend is actually not behaving in a manner which invokes trust

If it’s the former, you need to work on yourself but if the latter is the case, then you need to give your relationship some hard thoughts. You cannot be with a girl who acts in a manner which invokes feelings of anger inside you.
If you tend to think negatively most of the time, just learn to look at things realistically. Be practical and evaluate the situation without letting your emotions blur your logic. Be sure you have your facts right before you accuse her of anything.
There is nothing which can hurt a girl more than a false accusation of carrying on with someone. Base your trust on her actions. If she acts in a manner which shows that she loves you, then it has to be the case.

Occasionally, do something for her which you personally may not like

At times just do something which she likes which you may not have a preference for. For example, if she feels like watching a chick flick you could take her out and watch it with her even if it bores the hell out of you. She will know that you are doing this only for her.
Remember the word occasionally. You don’t have to do anything which you don’t feel like doing just to please her, that would be a bit on the servile side. Girls do like men who are decisive and are usually quite happy to just go along.

Surprise Her

There is nothing like surprises that can get your girl to feel how much you love her. When you plan a surprise for her, it shows that you took the time to think and do something just for her.
It does not have to be anything extravagant or expensive. A few things you could do are:

• Buy her something which she always wanted. Most girls love window shopping and when you are with her she would tell you something that she would love to have. Just buy it for her as a surprise.
• Take her out on a fun date out of the blue. It could be something as simple as going for a long cruise and sitting by the sunset.
• Do something out of the ordinary, like cook her a meal by reading a recipe booklet. She would appreciate the gesture even if the cooking turns out bad.
• You can write her a romantic poetry and leave it by her door step. Call her and ask her to pick it up. It sounds goofy but girls do love these gestures. Just don’t keep doing the same things often, it loses the charm.

What you should not do to show her that you love her

There are the things you should try not to do in an attempt to show your love for her. When you behave this way you will usually come across as needy, and girls don’t like that.

• Keep calling her every 10 minutes to tell her how much you miss her.
• Sending romantic text messages, forwards or email forwards on frequent basis.
• Buying her gifts every now and then.
• Express your love for her every time you are with her. Words can tend to go boring.
• Try to impress her in any way by silly gestures and actions.

The thumb rule to follow is less is more, don’t overdo anything. Don’t make her think that you are obsessed with her, that’s a big negative. Be genuine but be controlled in your actions.